Dear Sam Sim,

it's great to see you aren't so tired and burdened anymore. You had me a lil worried there during paeds/patho period. But you're thru all that and now it's the fantastic electives, no? Prof K is inspiring, is she not. And in the midst of all that and the joy of an upcoming overseas adventure, do remember the important things in life.

First, your family. Mum is complaining how you spend minimal time at home, and haven't been to see Grandma in months. I know, I know, you've got all those church meetings and cell stuff and what not, but Grandma's the only grand-anything you have left. So while she's still AND and IADL independant, bring her out for dimsum. Spend some nights over at her place - she probably has lotsa lonely nights.

Remember, if ever you're tempted (and I know you are) to be proud of your skills/achievements/cleverness etc, that you're just a stroke away from hemiparesis, 40 years from arthritis and 60 years from dementia. Even at your peak, you'll never be as good as Clapton or Mayer anyway. A man is not defined by the abundance of his possessions, the greatness of his skills or how smart he is. A true man is secure in Jesus Christ, loves God, and gives his life to a vision that outlasts him.

Love your friends. Go the extra mile for them, not because "good relations" makes working together easier, but because they are friends. It's easy to be happy while insulating yourself from the hurts of those around you, but then again you don't want a heart rusty from disuse, do you? Keep your heart tender, share another's burdens, and have faith that when the time comes someone will share yours.

Finally, make an effort to pray. If you love God, you would talk to Him - in all seasons and at all times. Pray for strength. For wisdom. For a safe trip. For your family. For patients. For Razo. For weight loss (with a sensible exercise programme, of course). For a girl with long hair, hot legs and a car to drop from heaven into your arms. For perseverance in trial. For more love for God and the people around. For your friends. Pray.

Keep your feet firm, your eyes fixed on the goal, and guard your heart. And don't forget to travel light - there may be a twist or two yet. See you at the great gig in the sky.

Love,

Sam